3 Proven Ways to Stand Your Ground in Hard Times

Aimen Faheem
3 min read5 days ago

Learn to embrace life’s challenges and find the strength to move forward when everything seems uncertain

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Life is Full of Ups and Downs, My Friends!

Anyone who believes that one day life will be free from problems and filled with happiness is mistaken. This isn’t the mindset we need to live with. In this life, challenges are inevitable. There will be phases where it feels like there’s no silver lining, but we will get through them.

To balance your mindset during dark times, here are three ways to stand your ground:

1. Remember the Strength You've Gained from Past Struggles

When you’re in the middle of a tough time, remind yourself of the challenges you’ve overcome before. Whether it was a difficult exam, a personal failure, or any setback, you made it through.

You are alive and breathing—a living example that you’ve survived everything life has thrown at you so far.

Don’t let the turbulence of the present overpower you. Have a conversation with yourself during those moments:

"What did I overcome last time? What helped me survive then, and how can I use that strength now?"

Talking to yourself like this keeps you grounded, reminding you of your resilience.

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Aimen Faheem

I'm an NLP Master Practitioner with an MPhil in English Literature, passionate about mental health and storytelling, offering insights on personal development.